Baby on Board: Should You Fly or Drive Home with Your Newborn?
Flying with a Newborn:
Pros:
- Faster travel time — especially important if you’re traveling a long distance.
- Less time in a car seat, which is safer and more comfortable for newborns.
- Direct flights can minimize stress if timed well with feeding/sleep schedules.
Cons:
- Newborns can be more vulnerable to germs in crowded places like airports and planes.
- It is not recommended for newborns to travel by plane for the first week.
- Some professionals recommend waiting a longer time frame.
- Ear pressure during takeoff/landing may cause discomfort.
- Not all airlines have infant-friendly policies, and you’ll need to plan ahead for documents, feeding, and seating.
Tips for flying with a newborn:
- Talk to the pediatrician prior to any travel.
- Plan feedings during takeoff/landing to reduce ear pressure discomfort.
- Bring a lightweight stroller/carrier and lots of supplies (diapers, wipes, changes of clothes, etc.)
Driving Long Distance with a Newborn:
Pros:
- Controlled environment — no crowds, and easier to manage stops as needed.
- Ideal for shorter distances or if baby is just a few days old.
- More flexibility with stop for feedings, diaper changes, etc.
Cons:
- Stopping every 1.5 to 2 hours to reduce stress on the baby’s body.
- Longer drives can be tiring and stressful with frequent stops.
- Weather, road conditions, and fatigue can add complexity.
Tips for driving long distances with a newborn:
- Plan for frequent breaks to take baby out of the seat.
- Consider having two adults — one to drive and one to care for baby.
- Bring plenty of supplies and a comfy setup for feeding stops.
So… What’s Best?
Ultimately, the decision comes down to what the parents feel is best for their baby while traveling. For shorter distances, such as 6–8 hours, traveling by car may be the more comfortable and flexible option. For longer distances, flying may be the more practical choice.
Remember — you are in control of when and how you travel home with your newborn. Choose the option that feels safest and best suited for your family’s unique needs.